How to get your wife to cuck you: Phase 1 – The Making of a Hotwife A word of caution: Don’t follow these steps if you are in a weak and unstable relationship. Most likely you don’t get a wife, who you can watch fucking other men but an ex-wife who fucks other men but without you watching. And please think with your brain and not your cock. If you desire your wife to be a hotwife, you desire something most sane husbands would fear and for a good reason. Your wife will get fucked by men, who most likely have a bigger cock than you, perform better than you and look better than you. Maybe they even taste and smell better than you. So why should your wife stay with you? The kids, ok, financial stability, fine and because she loves you more than anybody else, good. But you have to be loveable. For that you may have to leave your comfort zones forever, all of them. If you think your wife would like you fitter, work out; if she doesn’t like the smell of beer on your breath, don’t drink any; if she doesn’t like football, watch something she likes. I haven’t said it would be easy. Step 1: Freeing the wife from the responsibility for your orgasms. „The lust of my wife is my aphrodisiac!“ My wife knows this and if you ever want to see your wife getting fucked by another man, your wife will have to hear these words from you too and has to believe that they are true. To get there you will have to invest a lot of work in advance. As a first step you have to establish an environment in wich your wifes feels loved and is comfortable with. She has to know, that whatever you do is only for her benefit. So buy her flowers, buy her gifts, not because it’s her birthday but because she mentioned that it‘s nice or you know she likes it. Small things but often. Do things for her. Do the cooking for her, bring her something to drink, do things, she normaly has to do. Again, small things but often. Give her a foot massage from time to time, increase the number over time. See how she reacts, invole the legs but stay wide away from her pussy. Start kissing her feet. Don’t make a show of it. Do it the first time at the end of the massage. Don’t talk about it. If she doesn’t complain, kiss her feet every time you do a massage. Don’t expect any reward. Whenever you become intimate with your wife, you start with kissing her feet. You can do everything she realy wants with her but, and that‘s important, you will not have intercourse and you don’t cum. Kiss her feet, kiss her legs, undress her, eat her pussy and make her cum and then stop. Make clear, that you don’t expect anything in return. Use a magic wand, make her cum and stop. Show her, that it’s only about her. Show her, that only her orgasms matter. Free her from the responsibility for your orgasms. Simply take them out of the game. Now your wife knows, that you love her and that you are able to do things simply and only for her sake. This is the important first step towards your goal of seeing your wife getting fucked by other men. You have to continue with this throughout the whole process. Step 2: Freeing the wife from the restrains of marriage Let step 1 sink in. Wait for an opportunity. Maybe a case of infidelity in your circle of friends and acquaintances or something from a tv show. It doesn’t matter. Comment on the topic but do it outside your bedroom. You don’t want her to think, that it’s only dirty talk. Tell her casually, that, in a strong, loving and trusting relationship both spouses should be able to have sex with other people as long as it’s only sex and the other partner knows about this. Whereas you don’t have any needs in that direction, it would be ok for you, under the mentioned conditions, if your wife would have sex with other guys. Leave everything open to her. Don’t tell her, that you want her to do it or that you want those guys to be black. Don’t limit her options that way. With those words, you set her free. Even when she instantly refuses and claims that she would never think about it, she still can’t unhear what she has heard. Knowing that she could will subconsciously change her behavior. Her mind gets set back to “single” mode. Every man becomes a potential sex partner again. Your wife herself will now send out different vibes than before, vibes of a woman who is available. In return she will react different to men who approach her. Nothing of this happens consciously and because of this she won’t be able to prevent it. Now you will have to wait again till something develops. In the meantime never stop with your work on step one. In addition, to get her to consider black man over white, if that is to your liking, you have to work on your wifes subconscious in that direction. Her orgasms have to become synonymously with big black cock. Get interracial porn and let that run in the background whenever you pleasure your wife. The hotwife series from blacked is quite tasteful. When you eat her pussy she has to watch black cock on your tv set. Her orgasms and the sight of black cock have to become one and the same. Pleasure her with black dildos and vibrators but never again with your dick. There are some dildos molded like real cocks from porn stars, from shane diesels cock for instance. Getting pleasure by that, while watching a shane diesel porn flic could be quite a turn on. When she insists on intercourse pull a black cock sheath over your dick. You won’t feel a thing but she will have more pleasure that way. If she gets an orgasm through that black cock sheath it will show her how much better a bigger cock than yours would be. All this should lead to the subconscious manifestation that black cock is superior to white dick and synonymously to her orgasms. Hopefully her choice is a black man when you reach step 3. Step 3: Freeing the wife from guilt Don’t just sit there and wait! You have to make your wife feeling good about herself, feeling hot and wanted. Only then will she believe that others could feel that way about her too. If you want your wife to meet somebody, you have to create opportunity. Maybe she’s a housewife and won’t meet a lot of people, maybe she goes to work but the range is not to her liking or she thinks that sex with a co-worker is a bad idea. Encourage her to go out more. There can’t be too many girls nights out. When you go out with her, point out guys to her who devour her with their eyes (only if it’s true and don’t overdo it). Show her that you’re proud, not jealous. Her big step will be easier for her. And then it will come, the big day. There are two most likely scenarios. If it’ someone she meets regularly, she is able to plan ahead. Hopefully she will come to you in advance. Maybe she will ask you if you really meant what you said the other day. Of course you will confirm that but don’t ask her anything she’s not telling you anyway. Only make her promise that she will tell you all about it when she’s back from her date. If it’s spontaneous sex, maybe on one of her nights out, she can’t tell you in advance and reassure herself. Hopefully she will tell you everything about it the next day. In the worst of cases, if you haven’t put enough effort into step 1 and 2, she will be overwhelmed by guilt, never talk about it and getting estranged to you. But you will have seen to it that this never happens. So now, when she tells you all about it, you will listen to her, don’t interrupt her but ask about her feelings, her lust, her ecstasy. If she tells you the next morning in bed, show her clearly that you are aroused by her story. You may wank of with her noticing it. This way you free your wife of any guilty feelings she may harbour. Seeing you cum before her will show her, that you are completely on board with her. When you’re done, thank her for it. Still better, if the situation allows, you can eat her out after she told you all about last night instead of cumming. This way you show her that it’s all about her and not about you. But don’t ask her to shower first or ask if she already did it. Be prepared to taste her lover in her pussy. Seeing you enjoy this as much as she does will free her of any guilty thoughts she might have had and encourage her to do this again. Now it’s done and can never be undone. Your wife is now a hotwife. What you will be and how your relation may develop will be explored in Phase 2: The Making of a Cuckold.