What do you do about the lonely hotwife living inside you, ladies?
I ask this question to the wives out there, and maybe even the younger women that are loving girlfriends to their white men. What do you do when you feel that emotion driving inside your gut that tells you that you demand more than what you know you're getting sexually from your man? Imagine you being stuck home alone with nothing important to do or worry about. There's just you and nobody else around. You start feeling yourself getting rather horny, in need of a strong man's touch. Yes, you have your collection of sex toys in the bathroom, but you've likely worn those out.
You need something strong and raw, like coffee, except this isn't something you ought to drink. You need something that's yearning like a box of chocolate, except this isn't the sort that gets to melt in your mouth.
You're in the mood for wanting a black man to come and take good care of you. Except you don't know how to attract one to come your way. It isn't like you cannot get onto the computer and start searching online for suitable black men to fuck. Except the internet is like a highway that branches off to varying places: hard to know what's real from what's fake. And even if found yourself such a man, what are the chances that he would be worth your while . . . or that you would be worth his?
It's never an easy feat finding a suitable bull to spend some fun-time with. Not saying that there aren't some women out there who aren't lucky. For some women, they have cultivated the habit over time, and have spent months (even years) keeping in touch with regular black men whom that can summon any time to come and fulfil their erotic needs.
The same goes with their cuck-husbands, too. This goes to those husbands who have assisted their wives in maintaining a healthy stag/vixen lifestyle in ensuring that she always gets to best set of men to come and be with her. That takes some active form of dedication and participation. As long as his wife is utmost regarding her sexual desires, and they're willing to venture forth to find such men, then so much the better for them.
Not all wives, however, can be so lucky. This includes wives residing in the city as opposed to those living in townships and places that won't necessarily cater to such explicit lifestyle. It becomes hard not only finding the right type of men she can demand, but always wanting to venture forth to exploring more of what's sexually eluding her desires.
All wives should endeavour to learn more about their sexuality foremost before deciding how well to pursue this lifestyle. She should make some active form of commitment alongside her husband. There will exist more about herself that she's yet to become better acquainted with when it comes to making sexual adventures beyond her home. How will she desire to indulge in wanting another man to come and spend time with her? How would she respond to his advances? How best would her husband equally respond should her desires start to increase in demand? Once a housewife affirms her desire in wanting to increase her reach as a hotwife, it is inevitable that there will be plenty of change in her household.
For those wives that seek having a live-in lover to become part of her household, she first needs to make certain that she's ready to take on the responsibility of such desire. Should her husband be willing to bear the brunt alongside her, that would make the journey a more enriching one. This would do best for couples residing in places where it's less beneficial to pick from the lot in her immediate environment.
As the saying goes: You can either go to the mountain, or endeavour to bring the mountain to you. The end result might be the same, but how you go about tackling the problem will go a long way towards revealing the might of your sexual horniness to you.
The main takeaway is that for couples to succeed in enjoying what's best about the cuckold lifestyle, they should learn to embrace their sexuality, their growing erotic desires (regardless of whatever form of kinkiness they are yet to attempt, or could only imagine), and to find a suitable lover(s) whom they can try out all what they want. Gone are the days when wives are expected to remain prudish for the rest of their married lives. Even as they couple(s) have grown from being middle-aged to mature status, it's even better they continue becoming acquainted with what they have always desired but have been too afraid to demand.
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