Being a Black Dom/Master isn’t only about fucking wives/girlfriends in front of their husbands/boyfriends. It also involves dominating husbands in their presence of their wives, and making both of them submissive under the Master’s will power.
There is more to being one than that. These other part isn’t often talked about, and it involves more subtlety than most would prefer to consider. It involves making the couple become further entrenched in their cuckold desires, letting them be well aware of each role they are supposed to play, and that neither gets to see this as an individual fulfilment.
This part doesn’t often involve sex. That isn’t to say that sex cannot be included — the sex is often the finishing part that seals the deal — but before that happens, there needs to be some fleshing out to make sure that neither couple is being selfish in his/her choice towards wanting this to happen.
A little backstory first.
Several years ago, I lived in Washington D.C. for nearly twelve months. During that time, I encountered a middle-aged couple from New Jersey. The husband contacted me, having been an esteem follower and figured I could help him with his dilemma. He was striving to get his wife involved in the cuckold lifestyle , but hadn’t made any headway, so far.
The husband invited me over to come spend time with him and his wife. I corresponded with each of them separately, and it turns out the wife was attracted to the lifestyle, but worried about her husband’s racist pastime making a comeback if she attempted being with a black man. Her husband did admit and apologise for his past life of bigotry. He was desperate for him and his wife to become a committed Black-Owned couple, hoping that would be a giant step/reparations towards making up for his past life.
I settled this predicament with his wife, to which she then accepted, as long as he wasn’t ever going to renege on his word. To prove his point, I got to fuck his wife in his presence, and not once did he express any ill-feelings towards me. I got to spend a fun weekend with them before returning back to D.C. Though we kept in touch after that period.
Things can differ with most couples, some of whom jump into this lifestyle fully prepared to accept everything they know that’s coming to them. However, there are many out there who are yet to come in contact with anyone who has been successful in this lifestyle, who can carefully ease them into becoming a part of it.
It certainly takes time for some husbands to decide on what efficient role they are meant to play: are they meant to be a stag, or a true cuckold? Should they desire towards wanting to be humiliated by their wife and her lover/Black Master? Would they prefer her becoming settled with a single lover, or having a row of lovers suitable enough to satisfy her? Even when such questions have been answered, they (the cuck and hotwife), need to ascertain how far they are willing to go towards enjoying themselves.
At some point, the lifestyle is bound to seep into their homestead. Would they be willing to introduce the idea of what they are becoming to the rest of their family, or should they strive towards discretion?
Such talking points would include them sharing it with their chosen Black Master, as it would be his regard to accept how well to place the couple under his domain.
Let it be known that as it is the Master’s given will power to dominate the couple sexually and psychologically, so too the couple must adhere towards granting him ultimate satisfaction when it comes to distilling pleasure.