For some time now, i have this fantasy of sharing my wife with another man.
We have been married for almost 20 years and we have 2 children.
We both like afro culture (people, music, food,...) and It turns me on terribly to imagine her taking a bbc.
I told her about my fantasy 2 years ago now. She was a bit confused at first, and she told me she could never do that. After talking about it 2 or 3 times she told me that she could accept a massage without going any further.
But I feel that the idea turns her a lot too. She's just too shy to admit it to me. We bought a realistic black dildo a when we play with it, she get several orgasms and her pussy is sooo wet... I know her well and I know that she wants it very much. It's hard to explain...
I know that if the opportunity presented itself, it would not take long for her to take it in her mouth 😀
But every time I talk about it a little more concretely, there is a blockage. Once she answered me "Let's imagine i say yes. And what? You will look for a man on a dating website? No way!"
She doesn't like to watch porn, and above all, i don't want to force her. So i don't know what to do...
I really wish the desire would grow and she would dare to tell me.
Do you have any advices? Or should i just forgot about it?
I also have some concerns about regretting it later. I love her and the goal is just to have fun and break the routine. I certainly don't want her to become a queen of spades or something. I don't even like the term "cuckold", that's not how i see things, and i intend to continue fucking her for a long time, but no matter, it's another topic 😁