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Letters and Confessions Vol. 2

Next year is going to make it ten years since I put out my first book "The Artist at Work and Other Stories", out in the market. I stopped keeping count of how many works I have put out since. Time just seemed to have flown by too fast, and it's still so.

Here are several letters I have gotten from couples all around who have made time to write to me. I can only select these two for now. If you wish to read a few more, follow this link to 'Letters and Confessions Vol. 3'.

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Hi Damien,

I’ve only recently come across your blog, and thought I’d reach out to you to let you know that I’m a great fan of yours and admire your work. As you will know well, it’s a very common fantasy amongst white women to have sex with black men, and that many white men (including myself) love watching our wives or girlfriends be fucked by African men. I hope that you get lots of opportunities in Nigeria to make such fantasies become real for expat wives.

The reason why I’m writing is that my wife and I returned to the States in 2017 after 4 years of living in Lagos (we had a villa off of Bishop Olunole Street on Victoria Island, not far from the Villa Angelia hotel there). I worked for an oil industry logistics company, and visited Port Harcourt six times during that period, as we had customers in the Niger-Delta. It’s a shame I wasn’t aware of your work whilst we were in Naija as you would have most certainly been welcome to enjoy my wife if you’d visited Lagos. 

For background, Emily is now 36. She’s 5’ 3”, curvy with 34H breasts, she’s a natural redhead with blue eyes, has very creamy white skin, and has always had a penchant for black men. I knew this before I married her (the first time I ever saw her she was making out with a black guy in a club), and that’s never been a problem for me. Indeed, interracial sex runs in her family - her sister has had two children by two different black men, and Emily’s first ever sexual experience was with a much older married black guy when she was 14 or so.

I’m very much into interracial sex involving black guys with white women, so Emily has been a perfect wife for that. We both enjoy watching IR porn, and we’ve often played out a shared bit of fun that involves me going down on Emily’s pussy whilst she’s watched porn films on on her iPad of white women being fucked by black men. Both of us prefer amateur porn where normal white wives have sex with guys, rather than porn stars. I’ve always made clear that I’m ok with Emily having fun with other men, and before we went to Nigeria we agreed that, if possible, she could hook up with a local guy for a very discreet arrangement. 

Thankfully my posting to Lagos was perfect for us, as it allowed us to both live out our fantasies for several years.

You write about expat couples indulging in IR sex whilst in Nigeria, but I’d like to reassure you that it’s very much a reality. Emily and I went to Naija thinking that, if we were very secretive and found the right man, we’d be able to quietly arrange something, but on day two of us being there we found that it was completely normal amongst expatriate women.  Indeed, our designated driver (Yemi) from my company actually asked Emily in our first week of being in Lagos if he was required in her bed, as he’d been with his previous two bosses wives (!). He said this very politely but also very normally, as if it was entirely normal for an African driver to ask a white wife if he should provide sex as well.

Two weeks into us arriving in Lagos and the Gardener  said the same to Emily, so clearly her predecessor (at least) spent her time in bed with both the driver and the gardener. 

The result of this was that my wife had, on tap, two men to pleasure her sexually and she indulged in sex with both men on a very regular basis (although she never had both Yemi and Ade at the same time, unfortunately). Her ‘normal’ routine was to be driven to the international school to drop off our daughter in the morning, return home, have a shower, and then ask Yemi for sex. In the afternoons, and if she was in the mood for it, she’d invite Ade into bed for a session too.

Obviously I was at work whilst Emily was having fun, but she occasionally sent me photos through WhatsApp of what she was up to with both men, and I greatly enjoyed the idea of my wife naked and having sex with her black lovers in our bed.  I was also able to watch her with Ade on several occasions, and I was always amazed at how much she loved fucking and sucking him. Seeing Emily being taken by Yemi from behind, her big boobs bouncing around whilst he fucked her hard and her pale skin contrasting so much with his black, was amazing for me. I’ve no idea how much cum both guys pumped her with over the 4 years we were on V.I. but I guess it must have amounted to a couple of pints. 

I should add that all four of Emily’s closest girlfriends also had similar arrangements with their drivers, and one of them also had her gardener available too, like Emily. They sometimes swapped around, so in any given week the five wives might get to be satisfied sexually by three or four different Nigerian men, so within their small expat circle there was a lot of interracial sex going on.

All of them were in their early 30s, married with young children, and enjoyed the lifestyle very much. They were a mixture of blondes, brunettes, and one redhead (my wife) so the Nigerian guys got to experience the range of white women in bed. Emily and I often wonder if my successor and his wife (both Dutch) have continued the arrangement with Yemi and Ade. 

Anyway, best wishes and please keep up the good work.



Austin, Tx.

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Dear Damien Sir,

First of all, a big thanks to you to immediately reverting to my query on twitter. Let me give u a small brief on our background.

We are a couple in our mid 30's living in Dubai. We have been married for 11 years now and have a rock solid relationship. The romance and the need to satisfy each other has just not come down across these years. Even after 11 years we continue to be eager to make love to each other.

During the last 2 years, we have been allowing each other to experiment on our sexual needs so that we start enjoying and appreciate the fantasies and fetishes that we think about. Both self and my wife have been part of Threesomes as well as individual experiences.

Either she watches me in an act with a lady or I get to watch her enjoying with another male. Our sex life and bonding has further increased post these experiences and we appreciate and love the value for each other even more now.

My wife is blessed with an immense sex drive and post her last session with a black gentleman, she has taken a liking to BBC. We subscribe to BBC Porn sites and that is when I came across your Twitter handle.

Since then (6 months) we regularly read your posts and admire your imagination and the way you narrate your stories.

What we would like to ask u-

1. Are the couple stories and video references that u provide on your twitter handle real in terms of people that you know?

2. DO you indulge yourself in sex with couples?

3. Do you coach/ share experiences with couples?

Was keen to check with you given that your Twitter handle describes you as Erotic writer, Black Master and Sex Friend. We are definitely interested in getting to know more about you.



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Dear Shango,

My wife has read many of your stories at Medium site. She follows your other blogs including your Twitter profile. In fact it was her that clued me into you. I am sending you some photos of her for your pleasure.

We live in upstate NY, in Rochester. It is lonely here and my wife desires the type of fun that you write about. I never knew before that this was real but she tells me it is.

We want to become a cuckold couple. I have never told anyone this before but since we found your site it has been all we talk about. Laura knows I don’t know how to satisfy her. She wants to be with real man inside our bedroom. I want you to come and take ownership of us and our home.

It is unfortunate that you don’t reside anywhere close to us. I would like for you to include us in your next trip whenever that will be forthcoming. I am willing to send you our contact details and even pay for you to come. Simply give me a date and do tell us more of how best to serve you. I hope you dig Laura. She is so very crazy about wanting to be a whore to you.

your submissive slaves,

Ron & Laura.

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