There are always going to be 'What If' scenarios when wives face the forthright dilemma whether to go forth making a cuckold of their husbands or not. The truth is these women ( majority of them) know there ought not be having an issue regarding this particular question.
They know the truth explicitly well: that their husbands have, for years and months, declared to them their utmost desire of wanting their wives to have sex with other men. Whether attempting it in their presence or going out to indulge in some fun activity that might lead to their women getting implicitly entangled some some dark stranger(s).
Even now, as you’re reading this article, there are husbands out there secretly plotting for their wives to venture out and cheat—commit to some adulterous relationship behind their back while the husbands pretend to be clueless about such—anything that would move to needle to entice their women towards seeking pleasurable sex outside their marriage. It matters less as long as these wives carry out such wish and become emboldened enough to stick with it for a lengthy period before declaring it to their husbands.
Yet many of these women would rather act naive and assume such isn't a desire their men would like. They would rather presume their husbands are simply acting out some fiendish fantasy that has plagued their mind for years. Of course, such husbands couldn't possibly want their women to go out, have fun, and become seduced into wanting to fuck some nameless chap.
What husband would dare admit to wanting such to happen to their wife?
Except the opposite is true: plenty of husbands out there do seriously want such to occur. They want it so bad that they wouldn't mind paying a bull to stage an elaborate encounter with their wife while she's alone by herself at some bar or restaurant, and hope something positive occurs.
That dream is fervent and active in a lot of husbands/boyfriends's minds. The actuality of embracing their cuckold destiny is a yearning they can't afford to ignore. But for such destiny to be attained, the wannabe-cuck has to do whatever he can that's possible in his power to make his woman become self-aware of his urgency without losing her cool.
The number one persisting fear that keeps plenty of husbands/boyfriends from expressing their cuckold wish to their women lies mostly in how well their women would regard them once they become akin to such desire. Would she get angry/upset and work up a storm, or would she keenly give her man some measured space to further explain his reasons?
And let's say she does allow him the forum to express his cuckold suggestion to her, the other fear is what would be the outcome regarding her choice?
It would be easy to admit that most wannabe-cucks should expect their women to declare such request as DOA(Dead On Arrival), but does that mean she won't ever consider it anymore?
Some are lucky, through rigorous communicative measures, to achieve more expressive value from their women are she opts to investigate the pros and cons of considering what outcome her relationship with her husband/boyfriend would turn should she choose to have sex with another man. For her part, her foremost question is simple: "How would he take it if really I decide to do this?"
This question is pertinent in the sense that most wannabes are usually prone to changing their minds later, especially if/when they realise their woman is starting to dig into the lifestyle with enthusiasm. As she starts wanting more of that other man's cock and ignoring her man, it's inevitable for her cuck to feel bad about being ignored. He definitely wants his feelings or at least his submissive presence acknowledged by her and her lover.
This then leads to the third fear liable to get inflicted in this debacle: “Should you, the wife, involve your husband/boyfriend in being part of your cuckold adventures, or would you prefer venturing into it alone without his involvement?”
The same question would also be asked by the husband, whether he should include himself in the mix or stay clear. And even the wife’s future lover(s) too would need to deem such question: whether he/they would prefer the cuck being there along for the ride, or stick to only pleasuring the wife without the husband ever partaking in the works.
This particular question can best be answered once the three of them get together to fashion out how to make the lifestyle become equally pleasurable for either. Or in most circumstances, the wife and husband would already have decided how they want their relationship to go: whether they would stick to it being a wife-sharing adventure, or for the wife to do her thing regardless of her husband’s input or presence.
