Let it be known, a cuckold can never un-do himself; it does work that way, and I doubt there’s any way that such could ever apply. It is meaningless for a cuckold to assume that he can return to his former state of being, regardless of whether his woman chooses to do so or not.
A hotwife can decide to quit the lifestyle and return to being a regular housewife, that’s acceptable. For a husband, however, the opposite is what exists. Once a husband/boyfriend decides to become a cuckold, so he will remain for a lengthy period of time. I won’t say forever, because that would be too much of a stretch. I will say that even when a cuckold decides to go quiet, even then the desire never quits his heart or mind.
Each cuckold experience will strive to increase the cuck's erotic sensations, to the point where he then becomes like a junkie, always seeking an elevated fix for his spouse . . .
A cuck-husband can remain docile for a long time due to some unusual circumstances. Perhaps his spouse has quit the game and returned to being a domestic wife, or he has suffered other tragic measures like divorce. Even then, it’s unlikely that would be dire enough to kill his cuckold spirit.
The husband might decide to take some time off, become reacquainted with his emotions and livelihood, while also unconsciously seeking means of restarting his cuckold desires. But once this lifestyle gets started in a husband’s mind, seldom will he dare or become eager to quit.
In summary, like energy that never gets destroyed, so, too, a white husband cannot and should never deny his cuckold, submissive instincts to himself or to his lover.